Girls????!?

yes,this is the wrong category but I want girls opinons %26amp; all the girls are here.





okay,so I have this so called "friend" and I've known her for 4 years now. and a few years back she use to make fun of me with this boy that i had a crush on and i hated that she did that!


and she tells lies that this one guy is her "cousin" but shes so not,and she tells us(my other 2 friends) that she baby sits his sister,so not true!!!!! my other 2 friends alredy broke the friendship with her,im the only one left and im traped!!!!!!!!! I really hate her,but theres only a little bit of nice -ness in her i mean,im her only friend now,shes not that mean that much anymore so what do i do?





I dont want to be her best-close friend!!!


how do I come up with a plan that can get rid of her???


thanks!

Girls????!?
don't worry..just be whatever with her, if you stay friends..just know with certain things you can not trust her.
Reply:wow ok this is comp;licated so first tell her that you still remember what has happened in the past and you dont totally forgive her, this is going to be tough,im not going to lie, but you just have to go through with it then say that you dont want to go to her bday party cause of her lies and they are causing you to lose your other friends. then youll go your seperate ways becasue she will be angry with you, but mostly at herself for acting that way and shell just want to take it out on you so she might try to play pranks on you or start rumors, ignore them trust me, soon this whole situation will just fade out and youll go back to your life with your other two friends and shell soon realize that its her fault and she will stop acting that way and make new friends. i really hope this helped! if you have any other questions, email me, or if you just have more problems, i am like an expert at this stuff! =]]
Reply:either confront her or slowly cut ties and make new friends.


be busy all the time.
Reply:Well the only thing i can tell you is ignore her or find her a friend so you can get out.
Reply:just be honest.


if you dont want to be her friend anymore, just tell her.


if you "really hate her", dont pretend to be her friend, it misleads her and it makes you look bad.





honesty is the best policy even if it hurts.
Reply:well um that's a hard one





just try still being nice but don't hang out with her and stuff


anymore if shes just mean to you


but don't be mean to her but don't act like her friend or anything





and she will soon just leave you alone


trust me it will work


see ya :)
Reply:if she is that bad of a friend than you shouldn't have to break it to her nicely. just don't invite her anywhere, be mean, and she won't come back. i know, i sound really bitchy, but she doesn't sound like a great person anyway.
Reply:i have the same situation kind of. well i have a friend who lies about everything but she is still nice and stuff. i still continue to be her friend. not coz i have to. but its natural. i feel like, she is my friend, and she is. if u want to get rid of her, just start giving her obvious signs like: if she says "how was ur weekend?" say "ok" or just one word answers, and look the other way. do this until she figures your not interested in being her friend anymore. you could also try talking to her but i don't know if thats the best thing to do, just do what feels right. maybe hang around different/other people?!
Reply:You are going to have


so many other friends that are


going to lie to you. So many of them are going to


come and go. Those are stupid things to lie about,


maybe you should confront her about them.


She has been your friend for 4 years. Don't give


up that easily.





Hate is a big word. I'm sure if you truely "hated" her


you wouldn't stick around. If she means anything to


you, try to work it out. If she doesn't, no need for you


to stick around, your only making her think your her


friend.
Reply:dont talk ot her that much
Reply:slowly get distant and so she doesn't realize it
Reply:well i had the same problem with a girl i know and it all just sorts itsself out, you need to Tell it to her face %26amp; tell her...........





Jenn
Reply:Just get rid of her. She will be able to make more friends, don't worry. You don't need that kind of stress and negativity in your life. She will be ok.
Reply:whatd your other friends do? because maybe you can just do the same thing...or maybe if you just stay with them instead she'll stay away from you
Reply:i use to have a friend like that. she always made fun of me and always put down my family and other friends...she hated when i would go out with other friends, and i could never have a friend that she didnt know...she HAD to know all my friends...it drove me crazy! i told her many times that i wanted to stop being friends because of the way she treated me but she would always say "give me another chance" and i stupidly always did, but finally i was so mad at her for something (i forget what it was now) that when she aim-ed me, i told her i cant be friends with u anymore. she took it really bad...but that was it...it happend before i started school so she transfered schools before school even started and i didnt have to deal with her. if ur going to break up with her, and ur her one main friend be prepared...my "ex-friend" threatedn to kill herself...but thank goodness she didn't...i didn't want her to die...i just couldnt stand being around her anymore. anyway...i hope things work out for u!

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