Girls..........?

what do girls really want....honestly, because every girl ive ever met says all they want is that nice guy who will hold their hand in public and always be there for them and all that....but ive been playing that role forever and girls always end up with the assholes and the nice guys finish last...honestly what do you want in a guy

Girls..........?
many people when they are young want a date that adds to their 'status'. they often go for superficial traits such as looks or who is the most popular in their group. Unfortunately it rarely favours the 'nice guys'.





To get ahead you will need to be more than just a 'nice guy'. try developing a combination of good social skills (knowing what to say and when to say it), confidence with the opposite sex and decency should get you over the line :D
Reply:understanding, sweet, stands up for his girl....p.s you sound like such a nice guy :)
Reply:i want a guy that i can be myself with...i dont want 2 worry about impressing him in any way because i know he likes me for who i am...i want somone that i can be silly with and not be shy around at all....if look like an idiot in front of him he'll just say how cute i look or just laugh at me...so far, ive only found one guy like this but nothing ever happened between us..
Reply:well different girls want different types of guys.


it all depends on their personality!!





Go 4 THE good girls.
Reply:To be honest, girls dont know what they want.
Reply:Well... I guess many of the good guys walk lonely roads because, yes, it is true, girls may feel attracted to these aloof, dangerous boys. I guess it is 'the forbidden' that attracts human nature most. But, then again, boys are the same. They also choose the girl that is going to treat them the worst.





I guess we like whatever isn't easy to get. But this doesn't mean we need to turn into jerks in order to be harder to get. If we know who we are %26amp; what we're worth, we most surely will be a little more picky as to whom we choose as a partner. ;)





Don't change your good nature because of 1 girl because what if due to your change you loose the one that's right for you? Just appreciate all the good qualities in you %26amp; start thinking about how 'your girl' should be. You'll see you won't end up with just every girl!!!
Reply:Well, everyone is different. In most cases girls want:





A guy to call her beautiful instead of hot.


Someone who will make her laugh.


Someone who wont be shy with her.


Someone who is cute (looks)


Someone who acts the same when with friends and with out her friends.


And sometimes girls just want guys who will act like asses because sometimes it makes girls want him more
Reply:What I wanted in a man, I found. A great guy who works hard and comes home to his family. He's a great father and a wonderful husband. He listens to me....REALLY listens. He has a great sense of humor, he knows how to make me feel better when I'm upset, and he knows when to leave me alone when I'm mad. He makes me laugh, he respects me, and hey.....he's good looking too.





I dated "bad boys" for many years. I finally grew up and realized that the appeal of someone who treated me like crap was ridiculous.


Don't worry. When you find the right girl, she will love you exactly for who you are.
Reply:girls want what they can't have...girls want a guy who is there and will listen they can have fun w/...lets them have their space when needed etc...just be yourself don't try to be fake to get a girl


the girls that end up w/ assholes is cuz those guys have them so dumbed down they think they can't do any better!
Reply:I no I'm only 18 but I've dated my fair share of "bad boys".


The a rseholes of the bunch, and i got bored of them.





My boyfriend is amazing. He listens to what i have to say, he shows me he loves me, he tries his hardest to cheer me up when I'm down and he's just amazing.





You maybe need to look for girls who are a little older, or seem to act a little older. Girls who are still in there teens go for bad boys.





Good luck!
Reply:mclovin is right we might say one thing and end up with the next
Reply:a gentlemen.
Reply:Here is my list of 10 qualities(in no particular order):


1. Sweet


2. Funny


3. Loves to cook


4. Smart


5. Nice


6. Romantic


7. Cute


8. Able to hold his ground in a discussion


9. gentle


10. Artistic


I love nice guys. Stay nice.


Good luck!
Reply:he has to be hot and have a real mean nasty attitude that leaves you feeling vulnerable.





lol
Reply:All girls are different in some way and I have to say I do not want a nice guy that will hold my hand in public. It would be nice to have someone that's there for me, though.
Reply:Girls want good-looking guys who are great in bed. Oh, they'd like these guys to be nice and romantic with them too, but they can ignore that part.
Reply:lol i have a list





respect


time for me AND their friends


nice guy





i've gone out w/ guys who are like the dorkiest ppl on earth, but they rock. its not always true that they finish last.
Reply:well, girls are looking for a guy whose going to give magic in their hearts.. if you dnt get me, you sucks!
Reply:Not gunna lie...most teenage girls like a hot guy, someone who treats them nice, honest, respect,loyal, trustworthy, someone they can tell everything to%26amp; not be judged by it. So just an attractive guy inside%26amp;out.
Reply:Not a bad temper, but gentle, understandable, and a gentlemen.
Reply:what i think that they might want (because i LOVVE guyss like this) is a guy that acts like a total asshole around everyone but is a TOTAL sweetheart around them. but they will do the whole hold hands n crap around their friends. don't totaly change for one


girl though, people hate it when they do taht.
Reply:Alwayz try to spend alot of time with her and try to alwayz be romanatic if she likes that,maybe she's like a punk or something.And never ignore a girl,even if she said something kind of silly or something,just laugh or smile.But it's just better if u laugh.And always try to open a conversation between a girl and a boy cuz its gonna be really boaring if u both will stay quite and never talk.