Girls........?

I have known this girl for about 4 weeks now. I asked her out to coffee last week, she seemed kind of shocked that i asked her out. I said "And yes, I am asking you out." She said she kind of has a boyfriend and that it is complicated. She then said "maybe at a later..." (basically...she was saying that she'd go out with me if things dont work out with her boyfriend....) So I said, "Oh ok, maybe get to know me a little better, huh?" She smiled and said "Yea!" I then said "OK, well I'm going to ask you out again though!"...and she smiled and blushed and said "Okay!!" Monday, I saw her at this function that about 5 of us went to go to help out at a mission. She finally was initiating conversation with me. When I was alone, she walked over to me and asked me how I did on a quiz, and we began talking a lot after that about other things also. But, she flirted with another guy by poking him in the belly. (CONTINUED)..........

Girls........?
Ok-if your friend thinks she is single and her myspace page says she is single then it sounds to me like she is just giving you an excuse not to go out with you. I have heard, and even I have said this, girls say to guys "I kind of have a boyfriend" as a nice way to let someone down...or she may have another crush and she is waiting to see what happens with him before she says yes to you.


I honestly can't say for sure, but it does sound like she just wants to be friends. If you want to get to know her a little better then maybe try going out in groups together. She may feel uncomfortable going out with you alone for the first time...maybe she just wants to have other people around her so it won't be so awkward..


But...if you really like this girl, then don't give up. Be persistent, not stalker persistent though...no one likes that.


Valentine's day is coming up...maybe you could get her a cute little Valentines card (just something small) and say to her, "I don't have any plans for Valentine's day and I would hate to spend it alone, so I was trying to get a group together to go to the movies...would you want to go?" See what happens from there. Good luck
Reply:stop rushing it.


u look desperate.


asking her out.


she has a bf..kinda


and then u say ur gunna ask her out again


ur already bothered that she poked some guys belly.





just let whatever happens.


time will tell.





if u guys start hanging out as friends.


maybe it would lead to a date.





dont rush it.
Reply:long story
Reply:Yes she likes you and is waiting for you to ask her out again.......I think you should ask her.
Reply:make it brief
Reply:man i aint readin that garbage.
Reply:forget it this whole girlfriend thing!


it will turn your guts inside out, and make you sick and unable to do any thing !


then she will walk off into the sunset with the ugliest guy you have ever seen with a smile on her face!





girls hey dont ya just love em(lol)
Reply:wait a little while... like a week. but dont ignore her for a whole week! talk to her like a close freind, then, after giving her time, ask her out again. take it from a girl. this should work unless she is still with her bf.
Reply:sounds like shes interested in you. I would suggest just trying to build up a friendship with her first and see where it goes from there. If you really like her be patient. You really have nothing to loose. Dont force the issue on her but make sure you keep yourself available to her and on her mind. Good luck bud
Reply:she said maybe because she hadnt talk with her girl friends about it yet. after talking to them and determining your were decent enough, they approved, so now you need to ask her out, or else her girl friend panel will retract their approval and you wont be any good in their eyes.
Reply:dont have much time to read.
Reply:Ask her out, if you feel comfortale, if not then wait. Maybe things will work out, or maybe they won't for the best. If it's not her there will be someone else out there...waiting.
Reply:I thinks she is flirting with many boys as she did with that guy... please wait and see her behaviour in next times you meet her, then if you really like her you can ask her out...
Reply:who has time to read all that ****, my only advice is dont get attached to he outcome of boning this chick or her being the one.....If she liked you then she would have said yes and why would you want a chick on the rebound, unless u wanna bone her
Reply:i like