Girls?????????...?

im going to go out with a girl tomorrow


(she has a big crush on me but she not shy and not outgoing more of a mix but more to the shy side)


(we are good friends too)


and we are going to go swimming in a pool for a bit





how can i get close to her to make it more sexy and playful fun?

Girls?????????...?
First of all, you don't need to think about it. This is something that can't be planned. You have to just go with the flow and react to her actions.
Reply:Hmmmm...all I can say is don't pressure her or make her feel like she's being pressured into doing something she doesn't want to do. Things can't happen like this all on one date, especially if it's the first!Good Luck!
Reply:there are alot of good reasons to get close to someone in a pool. Start of with a few of the always appreciated complements. she looks very pretty in her bathing suit, good looking legs etc. pick a feature you like and go with it. remember that you are trying to move out of the friend zone and into the boyfriend zone. try some pool games. if more friends are going try to give her some extra attention. just remember not to over do it with the compliments or attention. good luck and just try to have fun.
Reply:well first things first dont make it akward. but what i like guys to do is like hold me play with me but dont be too touchy feely. one thing is DO NOT GRAB HER BUTT OR CATCH YOU LOOKING AT HER CHEST! haha fun fun... good luck
Reply:FLIRT!
Reply:Not exactly sure what the other circumstances are here, but most girls really just want your attention. Keep a good conversation going, ask her things about herself. She wants to know you care, not just about anything sex related.


I'd just say - be casual and have a good time.
Reply:Well, don't get TO close! Don't wanna make her feel really uncomfortable. Try to just be fun. Maybe pick her up and throw her in or something..............
Reply:tell her you have a big crush on her and more lies that flater her
Reply:thats a tough one. you definatly dont want to take it to far. but just maybe turn on some of her favorite music, and enjoy yourslef. but if its a first date...it shouldn't be sexy and playful. it should be fun.
Reply:be clsoe to her, tease her a bit, put ur hands on her hips idk
Reply:you'll figure it out.
Reply:hummm....sounds childish but doing things like tag and chase can be fun....gives you a chance to touch her....throwing her into the pool, giving her a massage in the pool; whateva works 4 u
Reply:Just do what feels right for the moment.
Reply:go shirtless..... duhhr. and maybe when u go swimming come up from behind her and push her in (but fall in with her) have fun :) :)