Girls.....?

im trying 2 find out about girls and respecting them. wat do u like 2 talk about? who is the person u trust the most about wats going in ur life and y? wat do u do 2 help ur relationship out wit ur bf? last 1 wat makes u mad about guys?

Girls.....?
i'm glad some guy actually cares enough to ask this question =]





I personally like to talk about TV shows, Films, Music. I'm quite intelligent [and modest :P] so I like to be able to have a decent and interesting conversation with a guy. If you don't like the same stuff she does, never insult it, just maybe say that you couldn't get into it or something





The person I trust the most is probably my best friends, Alex [a girl] and Amy [also a girl]. I have guy friends I trust but the reason I don't tell them everything is 1. because they don't seem to care that much, and 2. because they don't share much with me, not all of them anyway. I trust my friends because they don't judge me, they don't laugh at what I tell them , e.g if I fancied a boy, that they thought was ugly or something, they wouldn't laugh, they'd just be curious as to why.





Well, I broke it off with my last boyfriend, but it was a fairly good relationship. The thing about him was he was realllly sweet. But it turned into sickly sweet. I try to talk to him, and just be close to him and not move too slowly, or too fast.





As mentioned before, I hate how you can't tell when you can trust guys. This one, told me about his girlfriend and that she didn't want to kiss him, which I told nobody about, and then i told him that I kissed my boyfriend, which he told lots of people about.





Guys seem to go for the prettiest, dumbest girls. I could probably be described as a nerd, but I can look good when i can be bothered. Which isn't at school.


You can never seem to tell if a guy likes you, and you might think they do, until you realise they flirt with everyone.








I just wish that all guys' minds and hearts controlled their actions instead of their 'manly parts'





My guy friend [the one that was mentioned before] actually felt me and my friend up! And we weren't even very good friends then!





Arrrrg, sorry for the super long answer, but I hope it helps





xx
Reply:Firstly, you have to respect a girl, don't just go around trying to hug and touch them all the time, (it's kind of creepy.) I actually enjoy talking about sports, different events, certain things at school. I'm a Christian, so I pray about a lot of stuff. My parents are ppl I talk to, my friends Steph, and Caleb. I'm actually pretty comfortable around guys, a (except one who had a crush on me and decided to stalk me [ different story]). I don't have a BF, but you have to be open about matters in order to make a relationship work. Certain things you keep to yourself, but don't go around acting different from who you are to try and keep a relationship going.
Reply:Umm I like talking about anything and everything, I am always up for a good conversation really.. I'd have to say I trust my bestfriend the most, shes been there for me threw everything and has every reason to have my trust. It all depends on the troubles that me and my boyfriend are going threw at the momment, I would do whatever to keep my relationship going with him. The thing that makes me mad is that they usually say the wrong things at the wrong time, and Sometimes I think they dont understand the things that they do has such an effect on girls. Hope that answears your question..
Reply:Hey,


I like to talk about my family + freinds, + also the guys family + freinds too. I talk about things that are coming up at that time (Eg, that weekend, summer holidays, birthdays...)


I don't just trust one person with whats going on in my life, I trust quite a few of my freinds with different aspects.


Eg. I'll go to Annie/Char if I have guy problems.


I'll go to Haylie if I need comforting


I'll go to Katy/Roxy/Mehgan/Tara if I need memories and a laugh.


+ much more. Every one of my freinds has a unique way to make me feel better.





I look for someone who can make me laugh, someone a little cheeky, and someone who really CARES about my opinion + feelings.





Hope I've helped X
Reply:I like to talk about things you kno like the movies fun stuff. I trust most is my mom not my best friend cause they can turn on you just as fast. I trust my mom because she's all i have in life and i kno she's gonna look out for me. I would give them their space and when they are ready to talk bout it they'll call me up or i'll get impatient and call them.lol. What makes me really mad is when a guy brags about what me and him talk about to his buddies it really just ticks me off.
Reply:Girls are not a completely different species. Respect them like you would respect any other person. What do we like to talk about? If you're going to have a good relationship with a girl, it should hopefully be the same sort of stuff you yourself like to talk about.


Girls are not all the same. They are each different, just like guys. Trust most in our lives? Depends on the girl. The person I trust most is myself. What to do to help a relationship? Depends on the girl. Some are romantic (like flowers, sappy poems, etc...) some are not. To help a relationship dating is key, and you should hopefully have some similar guys. What makes us mad about guys? Think what would make you mad with someone, and apply it to girls. And if you say guys don't get mad, you haven't lived very long.
Reply:i like to talk about movies, video games, current events. i don't like rude people or when I talk they seem not interested. i get disgusted when guys talk about their gentalia and women as if we are objects and are stupid. i have trust issues so no one knows much about my life, not even my bf. but when i have troubles or questions i talk to my older brother or daddy. if u want to respect a woman, remember your manners. its that simple. also don't raise your voice and try and act like the "alpha dog" in public, around other guys when we are with you guys. basically be yourself and not 2 different people to please certain crowds.
Reply:Girls want to be asked, considered, respected. In every confusing situation you have with a girl, just ask. Ask your girl what she likes to talk about. That's what she wants. The mix up with guys is that they ask and they get a "Nothing is wrong" "I don't know" or "fine" and they drop it. Ask until you are sure that - nothing is wrong, they don't know, or it is fine. If you are still getting no real answer, leave and check back to see if she is crying. Then you got the coveted comforting role we see in the movies. Girls like this kind of pursute. A girl will sometimes act mad to see how bad you want to make up. How else are we supposed to know how much you love us? If you ask a girl what she wants she will be sure to tell you and then give you some.
Reply:It doesn't matter what we talk about really, as long as both people are keeping the conversation alive and putting effort into making it interesting. I trust my four best friends (two guys and two girls); I go to them for advice on everything, especially on my relationship with my boyfriend. It makes me mad when a guy is COMPLETELY clueless, and when they don't take initiative.
Reply:I like to talk about anything really. I trust my twin friends cuz they help me out a lot in my so call "love life". I usually give them advice and stuff. Wut makes me mad is when they ignore me, don't care about my feelings, flirt a lot, gets most attention, is a ego maniac, (if you don't know wut that means it means that he has a high self esteem, I mean HUGE! emphasis on the HUGE!,) when they don't tell me anything.
Reply:okay emo girl sorry hun but thats just straight wierd..


and i like talking about things anything really


whatver comes to mind im soo random. and my boyfriend and i have a great relationship because im a listener and i like to help people and give advice im very blunt so i will tell you something right like it is if i notice something .. and i trust my boyfriend most because i live with him and hwatever happens he helps me through it. like right now im pregnant and 17 and he hasnt left my side and hes soo loving and caring.!! and guys are soo moody!!
Reply:wat do u like 2 talk about?


I like to talk about music, school, life. Like, bands and concerts and homework assignments and it will just go outwards from there. Some girls are more open than others and will freely discuss their personal lives, while some like to keep it to themselves. If they feel comfortable talking about it, they'll mention it. If they don't, don't ask about it.





who is the person u trust the most about wats going in ur life and y?


Lol, Most people trust their best friends or parents, some peopel trust their boy friends but I personally trust people like therapists the most because everything you say to them is confidential. I am probably not the best example of this though! LOL





wat do u do 2 help ur relationship out wit ur bf?


I don't have a boyfriend, so I wouldn' t know.





last 1 wat makes u mad about guys?


It makes me mad when they smell. Or are rude or talk about gross things. I also dislike it when boys talk about thinks that they like and the girls have no interest in, like cars or skateboarding. Talk about something that you have in common with a girl.





Hope that helps :) I guess us girls are just hard to read LOL
Reply:Okay, I definitely respect myself, but not too much to make it pride. I like to talk about my faith (catholic) especially with people who are as well because it makes a lot easier =]. I can talk to my best friend because it's hard to get my mom to get stuff sometimes. I don't have a bf, but I'm just enjoying life and if someone happens to come around...so be it %26lt;3. I'd have to say that I hate it when guys act so prideful that they can't admit they're wrong about things.
Reply:**i talk about the most random stuff. like we were (at my table) having a like poll on favorite colors and then all of a sudden i was like all i have my very own toaster! yeah.[=


**i definitely trust my two bestest best friends the most in my life. because theyve always been there for me and i know they wont judge me.%26lt;33


**i havent had a bf. yet. but this guy asked me out, and you have to be as nice as possible. i dont wanna be mean.X|)


**wat makes me made about guysss?? umm, theyre obnoxicious-ness, really. lol. idk, nm, really. theyre coolio. ((at least the ones i know))
Reply:i like to talk about anyting but when its with my guy mates, anything but nothing dirty .


the person i trust the most is my boyfriend becasue i love him and hes like my best friend and he never pushes me to do stuff i dont want to do and hes not after only one thing. well the thing that makes our relationship brill, is to remember the small things matter the most. like when we first started going out, i asked him out by text and then he texted back saying yes and i the first thing when i woke up was a text from him saying ...... morning x ........ . and he holds my hand and i could go on forever. the thing that makes me mad a about a guy is when hes kind, caring, considerate, not a asshole, can stick up for himself, loves sports, good sense of humour and his personallity becasue i cant fancy a guy if i dont know what his personallity is ............ so i hope i helped you and the best of luck and what makes me go all mad when a guy cheats on me, flirts with his exgirlfriend right infront of me and says hes only being friendly and i wonder of you do this infront of my face, what do you do behind my back
Reply:I get angry when guys try and take too much control,





I personally like talking about anything Music mostly. Just ask this girl/girls what they like to do in their spare time and stuffs. I'm always in a mood with my bf atm but if he was grumpy with me for a legitmite reason , I usually make him some food :P





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Reply:I am open to all subject matters..but I don't like a person who is just being nosy to go tell the whole world my business.. I am a private person as a rule..


I love guys.. who.. respect me.. by being there.. not pushy.. or toooo forward... they take time to get to no me.. and who I am as a person.. and not just for sex..


I get mad over cheating and lie-ing to me..


I can handle the truth.. and may even forgive.. it they cheated on me.. but to cheat then lie about it..


unforgivable..


take care..
Reply:ok im a girl and to tell you the truth i hate talking about shopping!!!


i like sports, and a lot of things guys like to talk about!!!


i go to 1 person wit everything,even guys...and he is like my bro(but he isnt!)!


the thing tht makes me mad about guys is when they are trying to be cool or try to impress me! and i hate it when they try to be perverted just to make there friends jelous or sumthing!!!!!
Reply:talk about a lot of stuff. random stuff. movies, songs, each other, hair, clothes, school. brands, like juicy. i trust my 2 best friends, tay and nikki. my life is very busy and im trying to keep my grades up, i was in the school play and they all dropped. nothing. i moved. i get mad about guys b/c they try to be loud and obnoxious in school and sometimes it gets annoying. and how they dont really listen to girls /bc they think that they are usperior to them
Reply:Im a girl-i like to talk about like funny stuff and stuff like that. i HATE it when boys try to act like there "bad". i hate it when there wannabess and there all that. i hate it when they control girls like even friends that are girls. when they control them like as a joke it's sometimes okay. i hate it when there all bossy. BA BUY!
Reply:Music.. Boys... [hate to say it but]gossip...





Probably my best friend, cause i know shes going through the same stuff, and because she helps me with basically everything.=]





Just talk to him.. its not really a relationship, if all you do is see each other at school, or stuff like that.





Hm.. When guys are being @$$es .... it bugs the CRAP outta me...
Reply:to start with we don't like it when u perposely act dumb! seccond just be ur self . if a girl is upset try to be king and understanding let them know they can always talk to u and you'll alway's be there 4 them. talk about little things like shoes or what they did over the wk end. probally our closest friends or someone we'd trust with our life..it makes us feel more secure. always try to see both sidea of everything we do no mater what it may be it leads to less arguements. if u mean crazy 4 them...hormones... and if u mean mad at them probally because we're in a bad mood and need someone to scream at!!! or you did somethin so bad you deserve to be yelled at!! hope this helps!!
Reply:i like shopping, clothes, celebrity gossip etc etc but boys seem to hate that...oh well got my girls to talk about that wid...


the person i trust most is prolly my cousin %26amp;%26amp; my best friend


well ive realised most guys are priks %26amp;%26amp; just want to use you for one thing....what makes me md about boys is some of them are just so dam gawjuzz but yehh they are still priks....
Reply:Um..


Right


Me And My Friend Had A Strong Friendship, Built Up Alot Of Trust For Eachother, We Basically Talked About Everything.


then We Started Seeing Eachother (dateing?) And Things Went Pearshaped And Out Friendship Was Ruined. So If You Want More Than A Friendship With A Girl, Don't Build Up A Strong Friendship Before Hand... (Well I Wouldn't Advise It.


Mad About Guys -


When They're Up Their Own Ar**s


When They Don't Talk To You Unless You're Pretty


When They Look At Your Breasts When They Talk To You.
Reply:I like to talk about like whats going on today and in my partners day.What was his day like.Uhm my best friend honestly. because I can confide in her and trust her to take my secret to the grave.


Uhm had a bad one but I think it was lack of comunication.uhm mostly if their faking that their not going out with you yeah.
Reply:I'll talk about anything with guys. In my life I trust myself and my intuitions the most. To help my bestie out I'm just there for them and listen when they need to talk. Guys make me mad when they don't admit their feelings for a girl or when they use girls.





Hope I helped.
Reply:what makes me mad? HA. i have a heap load. but, one, is stupid humor. cant stand it when guys laugh at something that is not funny and they are so immature. that just, pisses me off. just be NATURAL. :)
Reply:I really confide in my grandma or my bff! I try to have a give and take relationship! Like we both give but we also get from one another!! They act so macho i front of their guy friends and bad mouth like their the king. But when your alone their like "I love you and ur my queen!! blah....blah...!" LOL
Reply:1.i like talking about how my day was,


2.i trust my best friend because she understands me


3.i dont have a bf sorry


4.when they dont have sensitive sides and you cant have a discussion without them being cocky.i like conversation
Reply:i like to talk about anything interesting..i dont really care, my best friend and cuz i trust her and she gives good advice, i dont have a bf, and how they seem to only care about looks.
Reply:i like talking about n e thing, usually is just making fun of something. I trust my friends couse its common sense.not being a bitck and talking things out. it makes me mad that guys have their heart in their pants