Girls...............?

Do you like when you see a guy all built up.


He has a very high confidence in himself and most of all he picks on nerds.He's also kinda into other girl.








or





there this silent one,not very built.....he's just quiet.


He doesn't talk much, he's nice inside


Which of these two do you like ?





you could say neither if you want

Girls...............?
Girls love a guy with confidence. However, they hate cheaters and do not like bullies. At the same time, they find it desirable if a guy is big, strong, and maybe even a little aggressive (when it is warranted) because it gives them a feeling of security.





There is a huge difference in bullying and picking on/teasing people. If you heard a conversation between my friends and me, you would think we hated each other because we constantly insult one another. It's all in jest, and I'm just as likely to make fun of a nerdy guy as I am a guy who is twice my size. And I am even more likely to make fun of myself. Being able to laugh at others and yourself is a key personality trait to have. The difference is whether or not you do it with a malice intent. If it is done lightheartedly, then girls will find it funny and attractive. If you're doing it because you're a jerk, most girls will want nothing to do with you.





Girls do not like really quiet guys. Just doesn't happen. If a girl goes on a date and the guy can't manage a decent conversation, do you think he's getting a second date? Heck no. There's a difference between being quiet and being shy. If a guy is a little shy, but once he opens up, he's nice and stops being quiet, girls can find him attractive, but if he remains quiet and aloof after they get to know each other, she will not be interested any more. No girl wants a guy that she cannot bring out in a social situation or have a great conversation with.





The best thing I can tell you is to be balanced. All girls love a balanced guy. If a guy is in good (not necessarily great) shape, is confident (not cocky), can joke and take jokes (but doesn't come off as a jerk), is social (but not boisterous or annoying), and knows when to be quiet and listen (but isn't awkwardly quiet all the time), there is no reason why he couldn't get nearly any girl he desires.
Reply:The silent one is better...he seems like less like and asshole, but the built one probably gets more girls...
Reply:I like the second guy. Being built doesn't mean anything to me. Having confidence in yourself is good- but if in order to have the confidence you have to put down others then its just stupid. and the second one is nice! plus, im a nerd, so he would be putting me down.
Reply:Hope this helps.


This first guy sound like your typical American jock, stuck up, thinks of himself as a pretty boy. If your an attractive girl, with his cocky attitude he will always know he can get a prettier girl, thats what he goes for but with the second guy, he seems to be the completely different. If your physically attractive, he will always know that he wont find anyone better and thus will try ten times harder to keep you. He will care more, be nice and treat you special.


You also have to look at this in the long road. The second guy quite possibly will be more successful in the future and will be a better influence on your children (if you go that far). You parents would prefer the second guy too.


If he's not so successful in the girl department, you will make him one happy man by answering his prayers. Dont let anyone get to you if they tease you, if its meant to be its meant to be.


Dont consider the first guy any further, its not worth it. It will only end in heart break.


Good luck


Chris J.
Reply:neither.








i like a guy you has a good personality and shows it-looks aren't necessarily my first priority. if two boys were sitting in a room and one was "nice inside," but just sat there not talking or engaging in conversation, i wouldn't waste my time with him. it's all about first impressions with me.





the first guy you described is a total narcissist and would probably be more into himself than his girl, thus treating her like the ground you prances on. i hate guys with a mean, "i'm better than you" attitude. def. not what i want.
Reply:id rather have someone who doesnt talk much then someone who makes others feel bad.
Reply:i like girls not guys
Reply:Can I have a mix of both?


I don't like a guy that picks on anyone, I like confidence, an I definitely like nice.
Reply:Honestly, the first guy sounds like a creep. It sounds more like he is arrogant, not confident..big difference. Sheesh, you could be the most attractive guy in the world and arrogance can make you seem disgusting.





And its great if a guy is nice, even if he's a bit mysterious..but no one is going to know his personality if he keeps to himself.





Of both of these, I'd probably more likely pick the second guy..but he'd have to be willing to be himself around me.
Reply:If a guy is mean enough to be openly tormenting people, about the only attention he's going to get from me is a well-placed foot tripping him when he walks by. I'm the girl that's dating the nerd muscle-head was picking on!
Reply:As many of the first ones that picked on my friend and hurt him id have to go with number two.
Reply:number 2 most definitely
Reply:Neither. I like a guy who's outrageous and into danger. skinny if it looks good. I'm not really into super muscley guys. Whatever looks good. I'm more into personality. I'm not really into quiet people. Takes to long to open them up. I want some one who's real and who talks.
Reply:I don't like anyone who picks on anyone.If they have to do that they don't have much confidence,in themselves.
Reply:id pick the one whos nice inside! i hate arrogant jerks who pick on other kids


you don't have to be built
Reply:The quiet one.
Reply:seriouslty neither





picing on people is unattractive an immature but i do like the built up thing





and quietness doesnt really matter to me as long as i get to know them
Reply:i like the quite shy type because thats kind of how i am and you know in the long run hes not a self centered person unlike the other guy who picks on people and is into himself.
Reply:second one i like those quiet guys...it gives them an air of mystery
Reply:this silent one


i think that one is better...so everyone wont know about your relationship...so you can be a silent couple.


thats what i think


good luck finding love
Reply:I'd go for the silent one any day. Guys who pick on other people and think too much of themselves piss me off more than almost anything else.
Reply:i like 1 who is nice and doesnt pick on other ppl but confident so the 2nd 1 but just confident
Reply:I'm not very built and I wouldn't say i'm skinny either. I consider myself just an average joe. I've found in my experience that outside qualities don't really matter much to women. From what I've found, the thing that you have to work on the most is the first appearance. Many women will make up their minds within the first 5 minutes if your a loser or not. If you show them that you have confidence in yourself and have a great funny personality, they will love you.
Reply:i prefer the second guy =] i cant stand bullies and he's a player? who in their right mind would choose the 1st guy?
Reply:numba 2, i dont want a bulley, or into another girl
Reply:Neither.


I like my boyfriend;tall,thin,handsome;hilarious;o...
Reply:I always go for the loners one. Because I don't have much friends and I just hang around some nerds because I'm a tomboy. That'll be really different for most girls, though. So, I'll pick the silent one. ^_^
Reply:I am attracted to someone who is confident, takes care of himself, respectful and has a great down-to-earth personality. It is not 100% about looks, nor is it 100% about the inner self. It's a balance of the two... total package per se.
Reply:I would not want to be around a guy who picks on other peop le, just means hes insecure and would pick on you the first time u make him mad.. Go for the chill dude, nice guy. He sounds like he would treat you better.
Reply:the second one... i'm a sucker for a sweet personality, ur looks only last so long. and especially if he's an *** with an ego who likes somebody else, that's definitely not cool.