Girls??????

ok, there's this girl and i like her but i'm too muscular for her she likes kinda husky guys... but why would she do you guys know????

Girls??????
Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to what they find appealing in a prospective partner. There might not be any particular why as to her attraction to husky guys, it just might be what she's drawn to, just like some people prefer blondes or brunettes.





As for gaining weight for her. I would say no. When it comes down to it, you are the one that is going to have to be happy in your own skin. No potential partner is worth altering yourself for to that extent. Even if you did gain weight, and end up with the girl would you be happy looking in the mirror every day and seeing yourself with the extra pounds. When it comes down to it, if you are not happy with yourself, and your own self image you won't have a happy relationship.





Would you want to put the kind of strain that the possibility of that kind of resentment could cause on a relationship.





If you like the girl, and you are compatible, then great, a few pounds shouldn't stand between two people that find a real emotional connection.
Reply:Forget about her all ready, she probably knows she is driving you crazy and enjoying it,do not play her game. Take no notice of her and she will like you, but lay your cards on the table that is no games, game players are sick people
Reply:No girl is worth getting fat over! Stay in shape! There are plenty of fish in the sea. Did she tell you that you're to muscular? Write her this note; "Every move you make...every breath you take...I'll be watching you". Works every time...just be ready when she comes after you.
Reply:Don't change yourself for some girl.
Reply:dont change for someone you havent known for very long, thats silly. you'd be endangering your health. maybe she will look past that if she likes your personality. or see what she is interested in! if your interests are in common that could be more important than looks.. i cant imagine why she does that though, maybe she thinks she's safer with someone not so muscular. i dont know i'm not her...i hope you find happiness, good luck =)
Reply:answer this - are you gona change the way you look and your lifestyle for every girl you will ever date? even if you answer yes - it might take you longer to transform your body than a girl is gona be available (e.g. you already gained 25lbs and she just got a boyfriend, next girl likes skinny guys - you are working your butt off, lost 20lbs when she got a boyfriend)


love yourself the way you are and confidence will attract all the girls you want.
Reply:You most certainly should not adopt a new and unhealthy body type for a girl. Many — most, even — girls find your particular body type to be the sexiest of all.





If this girl is refusing you, there is probably a deeper issue than your body type. Maybe you're just not compatible? Does she fancy someone else? At any rate, you would almost certainly soon regret putting on weight to win a girl's affections. Find one that appreciates your hot body the way it is. I'm sure there are loads!
Reply:Do NOT get fat for her. I suppose some girls just have different tastes. Trust me, it's not a common thing, you'll find plenty of other athetlic ladies who will like you for who you are (including your muscular physique)!
Reply:if you are comfortable with the way you look then stay that way. You may never know she may like masculine guys ... things can change ... why dont you ask her out, I think that would be nice. If she the answer is yes or no then you judge right there what you wanna do. It doesnt hurt to ask, atleast you'll get an answer.
Reply:If she really liked you for you, she wouldn't care for your body as much as your personality. Don't change just for her, I can guarantee there's plenty of other girls that would go for you that are nice and sweet.