Monday, April 12, 2010

Girls!!!!!!?

hi,


i start working at a new place last week


and we have a client, she is amazing, and i wanna ask her out.


but im scared that it will ruin our relationship if she will say no or


maybe she wont come to us again because of me


i need advice, and instructions for how to do so

Girls!!!!!!?
leave her alone and just get to know her in a business way and find out from her body language if she's interested in you other than business................and perhaps do a little of harmless flirting with her and see how she responds.........
Reply:before you jeopardize your job, you had better find out what your company policy about dating clients is.
Reply:If you really like her that much and think is worth taking the risk the go and do it is you life and if anything goes wrong then you will just have to deal with it, beside how bad can it turn out?
Reply:Johnny, my advice to you is to let it go until the business is completed. If you ask now and she says yes and you like each other and then you break up.................. you should never date a client until that client has signed on the dotted line and even then you are taking a risk at losing your job as well as the clients business. Sometimes you have to think of the job rather than your own needs. Now, if she is willing to date you and take a risk on you then that is something else but you maybe putting your job in jeopardy air go your leisure time cause you are going to be out looking for a new job.
Reply:HOW DO WE KNOW YOUR NOT A C*R*A*Z*Y PERSON ASKING HOW TO ASK SOMEONE OUT??????
Reply:i say go for it and take your chances
Reply:a girl likes small talk. as in: flirting.


give it some time. that's all i can say. never wear black in front of her. it's a bad sign of betrayal.


and don't worry about the whole thing runing the relationship. understand that girls aren't as complex as you think. they're actually much more simpler than guys.


but anyway, even if she says no, a girl is more willing to still accept you as a friend.


no worries.
Reply:ask her out but say u will understand if she doenst cuz it is a business environment
Reply:what kind of business is it? Actually it doesn't matter...just tell her man.. it doesn't matter if you lose her business, if you dont do it you'll always wonder if it would have worked out if you dont.
Reply:i am a girl so this might help. Talk to her first, learn her interests and the things that are the same, then ask her. Remember there are other fish in the sea. You have to have more customores than her your wont hurt where your working if she says no, and if she says yes she'll come in just to see you
Reply:Well, I dont really know how to put it....


Here is a qoute that I found very helpful


"If you keep yourself out of the game for a fear of losing there is no way on this earth that you are going to win."


You could either try that or just plain 'Follow your heart' either one will work :-).
Reply:I think most girls would be flattered by compliments...if you go about it respectfully and tactfully. The next time you see her, just mention how awesome you think she is and what beautiful eyes she has and that you would like to take her out sometime.....she'll probably yes. The worst she can say is no, and in order to keep a non-weird business relationship with her, just say well, ok , no problem..thank you anyway, have a nice day. She'll probably come back in.
Reply:Before you go for it look for signs that she likes you.
Reply:Best advice? take it slow, show her that your interested by looking in her eyes, always speak to her about whatever subject but try to seek out her interests and speak about that


Then eventually you can ask her when the time is right...
Reply:dont dip your pen in the company ink buddy. It's not proffesional, its risky for your business and it should be kept seperate.
Reply:in this life you must take risk





go for it
Reply:Well, theres ways you can show her that you are interested in her. One way is to pay her a casual compliment and see how she reacts.


If she is into you, she'll give you some sign.. %26amp; then you can go aheas and ask her out. Good luck!


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