Girls......?

Am i just being self conscious? my husband love the way i look, and wants me to get totally naked...ive done it a couple of times, but i get nervous and i dont know how to get out of that shy stage.....HELP

Girls......?
Personally, I think this question would be more appropriately answered from a masculine perspective.....you are indeed being self-conscientous concerning yourself when your husband wants you to get "totally naked".....for what anyway, besides sex? Does he enjoy just having you walk naked around the house? First of all, you already seem to know that your best friend "love the way i look".....that in itself should have already given you boosted confidence in overcoming your shyness.....the female anatomy is uniquely, exquisitely and strategically designed by the Creator to incite desire in men, and there is no reason whatsoever to be nervous, especially if you're married.....be happy that he even loves to visually savor and cherish your body at all, because some guys don't even like to look at their wives naked period, and even audaciously tell 'em that they're fat or need to lose weight.....and this disclosure I gave should have just boosted your confidence that much more! My ex had a "maternal gut" and was slightly overweight, but when she got naked, I was mesmerizingly under her spell.....it's what's known in today's cultural society as "power of the p*u*s*s*y".....when he wants you to get naked, remember--you have just become invested with more power than you will ever know, so start trying to understand and use your sexual savvy and finesse to its fullest potential, and you won't ever have to worry about him becoming a stray dog.....ever.....and if you wanna make him really weak in the knees, you oughtta even try dancing for him one day (just be prepared for him to jump your bones before the song even finishes).....the best way to get outta that shy stage is to remember that you're doing this because you love him, he's your best friend, you want to have him around the rest of your life and at that particular moment, he is the happiest camper of the six billion souls on the face of this chaotic planet.....straight up sentiments, and blessings to you.....
Reply:Suck back 3 Margaritas and let your hair (and clothes) down!
Reply:It's Your body hon, he don't own you.If you are not comfortable, then don't do it.
Reply:To be comfortable with him you need to first feel comfortable with yourself. Accept yourselve for what you are and what you look like. If you do that first then little by little you'll start getting comfortable with him. And you should tell him not to rush you! and that you're a little shy! hope that works. =)
Reply:He loves you and how you look, you need to get comfortable in your skin and just enjoy yourself.
Reply:just tell him your not ready yet build some confitdents and the get naked that what i think
Reply:Being completely naked is like just jumping into the water to learn to swim. While at first you'll be nervous or feel awkward, those feelings will go away as you get comfortable with your husband.





Explain to him what you are trying to do, and why.. Fully undress, in front of him, in broad daylight ! Then model around a little bit, and let him look, examine, touch, and explore every nook and crevice of your body, any which way he wants.





As he lovingly explores your body, caressing you gently, you'll relax under his touch, and your inhibitions should melt away.





Remember, this is the man you married, who loves you and the way you look. You should feel completely free with him.
Reply:Oh please! Its your husband just close your eyes and do it !
Reply:Just do it.
Reply:Love you don't need to be bashful because your husband want to look at you bare naked. You are one of those lucky woman that's being admired by the husband. Just look at this way, you said you've done it before,so doing it now will not be a problem,just embrace and be grateful that your hubby admires you that much. And if you do this,just tell yourself that I am very lucky woman that's being admired by this man, think of sexy thing like when the two of you were having intimacy,............just let yourself go...............
Reply:you will eventually grow out of it I did it just takes a while depending on the person so don't worry.
Reply:maybe a glass of wine might do the trick....
Reply:I went through this with my Fiance too. He always wants me to get naked when we are home alone. I have always been the girl that says turn off the lights and give me a blanket! lol


But he kept asking and I would do just a little at a time. Start slow, then work your way into full nudity with him. I would feel more comfortable being naked in front of a room full of strangers that I'll never see again, then I was with my fiance. All because I actually care what he thinks of me! I want him to see me as sexy and beautiful.


Then as I slowly got more comfortable with him and being naked, I realize that he DOES see that in me. Even on my bloated 'big' day's, he still loves my body!


That's because he loves ME.


Just like your husband loves you and he loves the way you look. That's why he wants to see you naked.


If HE wanted the lights off, or didn't ask to see you naked, then thats when I would worry.


But girl, he does think your sexy. You just need to take it slow, go at your pace, and know that he loves EVERYTHING about you!


Good Luck!





P.S. How you feel is normal! =)
Reply:Lights off with candles works for me.





He gets what he wants and I feel better since he can't see me like he would with the lights shinning on me like a spot light.
Reply:go to a nudist neighborhood or something....they're all nude and came out of their shells........or volunteer to pose nude for him and have him paint you....it may sound strange but you will get used to the nakedness....and feel better about showing off your body to him once you see his masterpiece
Reply:You're married and your husband has only seen you naked a couple times?





What are you nervous about? That you don't have perfect breasts and butt? That he might see a bit of cellulite? OMG! It would be terrible if he found out you were just a normal woman...





When he tells you he loves your body, believe him. He sees you in much different light than you see yourself. (We are all our own worst critic)
Reply:1 Long Island Ice Tea + 1 Naked Chick= Good time!





Don't be shy! Have fun with your man!!!
Reply:if you're not comfortable doing it, then don't.
Reply:Actually I am 24 and I am still in the shy stage.. I eventually get over it after a couple of months of being with someone but at first I always am really really shy!


maybe it is just something that will come with age, you might grow out of it
Reply:well if he loves the way u look than there is nothing to be shy about haha. just be glad u dont have some weird birth deflect!
Reply:He's your HUSBAND for crying out loud.





What kind of oppressive, overly conservative, sex demonizing kind of upbringing did you have that you're ashamed to get naked in front of your own Husband?





Let me be blunt, if you feel uncomfortable being naked in front of your own husband, then one of two things is happening.





1. You need therapy for your guilt and self image issues.





2. You married a man whom you don't really love, but who was either the "Best you could do" or something as trivial as the star of the football team. In short, you married him because it meant you were cool to have such a catch. The problem is, this means your husband is a trophy you have to keep winning and not an equal and a partner with whom you can spend your life.





My money is on a combination of the two.
Reply:You married a guy who you're not comfortable enough with to get naked in front of? What? That's odd...
Reply:Your body is your own body. having someone else (even your husband) see it can be very nerve racking. I would ask myself if you really want to get naked in front of him or not. If you don't really want to but you feel like hes pressuring you to, then I would just say no. But if you do want to, then it will just take time to get out of that stage. Just keep doing what you want to do and it will pass eventually. Good Luck!